I say you need to become the one before you find the one. Because to have a #healthyrelationship you want to meet at eye level. You don't want somebody to save you from a life that you think is miserable. You want them to come in and you want to both complement each other's great lives.
And so you first need to do that. And then once those two areas are covered, then you can talk about all the dating strategies and which app and what your profile looks like and all that stuff.
