One of my key things that I talk about is the three C's of dating and #relationships, which is compatibility, connection, and chemistry, but in that order. And so people often think it's the spark, right? Well, you can just F the spark, like really, it's compatibility. And compatibility, like Megan said, it's, it's about a map.
And when we go out dating, we've got our map of the world and we want to find somebody who has a similar map to ours, because when we live our life, according to the same map, things become easy, right? When one person says, go left. The other person looks at their map and goes, yeah, we go left here.
But when we meet somebody, they may be a great person, but they've got a totally different map of the world. Right? No matter how much we try to make those maps align, they're never going to align.
