Chasing Perfect, Catching Burnout
Tina walks into this session catching up on a rough stretch — a sick household, a missed call last time thanks to a debilitating migraine, and a nagging feeling that she "didn't do enough" since we last spoke. But almost immediately, the real conversation surfaces: her migraines are becoming a pattern, and a recent visit to her doctor left her more confused than reassured. When her doctor — a functional medicine practitioner — suggested she switch from white wine to red to help with her symptoms, Tina did her own digging and found the advice backwards: red wine is actually higher in histamines, not lower. We use this moment to talk about something bigger than one mixed-up recommendation — even functional medicine doctors are human, conversations get lost in translation (this one happened in German), and it's worth continuing to investigate her own histamine and hormonal triggers rather than taking any single answer as gospel.
From there, we unpack what's really driving the exhaustion underneath the surface-level symptoms. Tina is running a demanding full-time corporate role, raising a toddler with minimal family support nearby, and quietly carrying guilt that she isn't doing enough anywhere — not at home, not at work, not for herself. I name it plainly: this is burnout, and it's the kind that doesn't resolve by pushing harder. Having walked through my own burnout recovery, I share what I've learned the hard way — that chasing perfection is often what keeps people stuck in the cycle rather than what gets them out of it.
The turning point of this session is Tina's decision about what comes next. Her two-year work contract is ending, and instead of immediately lining up the next role, she's leaning toward taking real time off — not to be productive, not to optimize, but to actually heal. We talk through what that time could look like: not a rigid bucket list, but a simple, honest answer to the question of what she wants to feel and experience during that window, even if the answer is as small as doing nothing for a few days straight.
She also shares a genuinely big win: after months of feeling unable to let anyone down, she's finally decided to step back from one of her two singing commitments, choosing to finish out a final gig before parting ways. It's a small decision on paper but a significant shift in a pattern we've been tracking all session — the instinct to keep holding on to everything rather than letting anything go.
We close with a simple, achievable plan: build the goals list before the break starts, not during it, and remember that coming out of this season stronger and more whole is worth far more than rushing back into "on" mode too soon.
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Chapters:
00:00 Catching Up and Feeling Off
00:47 Alcohol Reactions and Doctor Advice
04:28 Migraines and Histamine Triggers
06:53 Toddler Germs and Daddy Preference
14:35 Surviving the Early Years
15:53 Family Support and Second Baby Talk
18:24 Work Pressure and Burnout Signs
26:04 Taking a Break with Clear Goals
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